Hello beautiful people, I had such a good day today and I hope you all did, too.
One of my twitter friends said before that “loving yourself can be as simple as flossing your teeth everyday.” Sooooo true. The sad thing is–sometimes, we forget or disregard giving us even the simple things like flossing our teeth!
I’d like to be honest and let you guys know that I struggle with loving myself. Maybe it comes with depression, maybe not. However, the hurts–betrayal/rejection/etc. that happens in life puts me in a dark hole sometimes that I forget the only key to my real happiness is myself.
With that said, I’d like to introduce to you all a new portion on the blog: Self-Care Sundays. For now, I will be doing this once a month and it’s simple: I will be dedicating the day to loving me and being intentional about it.
Today, I kept it simple but full of pampering 🙂
I had my hair re-touched, fixed my brows, shaved, and tried out turmeric face mask (been wanting to for so long!!)
For the turmeric mask, I used:
- 1.5 teaspoon turmeric powder
- 1 teaspoon honey
- 1 teaspoon almond milk
I just mixed them all in a small cup and applied it on fresh face (no make-up, and gave my face a good rinse before hand) I let it sit while I waited for the dye to set in my hair and rinsed it with my facial soap afterwards.
To top it off, my wonderful husband took this lovely photo of me:
(He was so adorable while taking it–shooing people and cars away because they would stare hehehe )
What do you guys do for yourselves as a form of self-care/self-love? Let’s share ideas and help each other out. 🙂
I loved reading this, its a greqt idea girl, also hot danm what a good photo
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Awwwwwnnnn….your husband is so cute.
I will be looking forward to more posts from your self care Sunday.
Loving yourself is truly important, but what I struggle most with is appreciating myself, it’s the same as loving yourself I guess, cause if you love yourself you’ll appreciate yourself right?
With appreciating myself, am making no progress and it worries me, any tips?
And your picture is damn beautiful!!
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I’m not an expert at loving myself and I’m still learning how to as well. But one thing that does work for me in terms of appreciating myself is literally engaging in some quiet time alone and reflecting on all the good qualities that I really love and enjoy about me, as well as those that others enjoy and have openly said to me. It also helps me a lot when I reflect on the things that I’ve accomplished–big or small (for me, knowing I’ve been consistent with this blog makes me really happy and appreciative of my persistence and hard work.) It’s tough because we are our own harshest critics but sometimes even writing down a list of the good in you makes a huge difference 🙂
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Thank you for this 😔😘😘
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I believe in loving yourself to be effective in loving others. Thank you for words of wisdom.
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It definitely is. 🙂 Just need to remind myself that regularly. Thanks for visiting and commenting, Mmy Tess. I really, really appreciate it.
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Wonderful piece young lady, and the photo was perfect. I just did a whole spa night myself on Wednesday and it was everything I needed. Keep up the great work.
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Thanks ma. 🙂 that sounds very relaxing. I’m actually learning a lot from you in terms of how to take care of one’s self. Can’t wait til we have a spa night together!!
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That picture of you is really cute. And I think this Self care thing is a very smart idea. Gonna implement it very soon.
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Awesome, let me know how it works for you: 🙂
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It is such a good Idea to pamper yourself once in a while I mean if you don’t who will😁😁 I treat myself to lunch or dinner at a good restaurant or get myself a present that I wouldn’t normally get 🙈😊
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Amen! It really is our job to love us first!
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Gorgeous photo of you!
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Thanks, hun! Would love to have you as a blog friend! I am based in LA 🙂
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No one physically can love you like you.great post
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Thank you, what an insightful comment 🙂
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Taking time just for yourself is so important and easy to forget. Gorgeous picture of you!
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So important and so easy to forget–s true. And thank you, hun 🙂
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That turmeric mask looks amazing. It’s so good for your skin. High five to you for making time for yourself. x
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Thank you!
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I’m not very good at loving myself I just go through the days doing what needs to be done without giving myself a break very often but I’m working on it. By the way wow on the picture looks great.
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Thank you, hun. You are not alone. I go through my days just go go go as well. Having this day helps me become intentional about it 🙂
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You can never go wrong with having a me time sometimes. The pictures looks great.
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Exactly. Thank you!
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Beautiful post!
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That picture is one great shot and you look great. Love the idea of pampering yourself. I’ll join you once I get a little time on my hands. Lol 😂
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I love your photo!
And yes, you should always take care of yourself.
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That facemask sounds great! One of my favourite things to do after a stressful day at work is to take a long bubble bath and read a good book.
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My pamper moments are dying my hair, doing my nails, and quiet time to craft.
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I like to do my nails in all different ways, quiet time for me to colour or write in my journal or read a good book are all ways to pamper me,
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Great post. When I do my hair and look good of course I feel great !!
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A little alone time is nice to rejevenate me. It doesnt happen often so I appreciate it when it does.
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I really love the photos You are right It’s important to take care our selves.
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A person needs to love themselves, and take care of their necessities before attending to someone else’s
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I could not have said it better myself. I love that your adding this section to your blog because self care and self love is important and it helps us become better people! This is really awesome!
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This is very good. It’s something that we all need to do. We have to give ourselves some time to recuperate and just relieve stress. It will make us love ourselves more, that’s for sure.
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I really love the idea of pamper myself I am so busy and I don’t have time to myself
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