Hey Badass Babes and Gents!
As you all know, I embarked on my first solo adventure in San Diego to celebrate my 26th birthday. My blog posts about the trip will be in the talks for awhile here as I still haven’t released all photos from the projects I worked on while I was in San Diego.
However, I did share some from my first location: Salk Institute for biological Studies.
The photos I will be sharing today are taken from the first day of my trip as well. They are taken my photographer Derrick š Pretty amazing how Derrick and I got together. Literally after my first shoot (at Salk Institute), I received a message on Instagram asking if I wanted to shoot with him! I agreed and we scheduled, originally, for Friday which was my last day. I went on my day completing another photoshoot–this time, at Torrey Pines Beach (photos coming soon!) then later on that night, while I was having dinner, Derek asked me if I wanted to shoot that night instead! Mind you, it was around 10pm. However, I haven’t done a night shoot yet so I was intrigued. I told him, I was up for it but I’ll have to suck my stomach in since I just had dinner! lol
We did our shoot at San Diego’s fashion valley. Of course, all the stores were closed but we wanted to shoot there for the lights š
I had a really great experience working with Derrick. He was very respectful, easy going, and totally made me feel comfortable and safe. For a woman, that means a lot!
This leads me to talk about TRUST – One thing I learned during my first solo trip.
I’m not going to lie, I have always preferred working with women. I used to say it’s because I prefer to work with women but tbh, it’s because I was not comfortable working with men. From past experiences, the men who contacted me for work had a different agenda in mind. However, limiting my options to just working with women will make me miss so many opportunities working with talented men.
Though Derrick found me on social media, he approached it in a very professional and friendly manner. I did not have an ounce of doubt or fear from the energy that he gave out. I took a look at his work and I liked them so I figured this was a great way to exercise trust and stepping out of my comfort zone.
I’m so glad I collaborated with Derrick. As we spoke throughout the shoot he opened up about how hard it is for him to find models to work with due to them thinking he has a different idea in mind. He said he was very thankful for me giving him a chance and I am glad I did, too. As you can see, my very first night shoot was successful and we came out with awesome pics!
So that was one go the big lessons I learned during my trip– Trust. I love how I can relate it not only in my professional but in my personal life as well.
What lesson has traveling given you?
Share with me in the comments below š
Xoxo,
Very nice. I’m so proud of you.
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Thank you ma
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That is a good post. Congratulations on your first solo trip. I love the photos you share and speaking about your experience.
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I appreciate you for taking time to read š
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The photos looks stunning! I like your blog thanks for sharing!
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Thank you as well!
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Wow, what great abs you have. I was intrigued, so I took a peek at your description. LOL. Anyways, don’t let hesitations limit your options. Just make sure you are in good hands.
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Thank you for the nice comment!
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It’s good that you trust your guts. It’s better to be hesitant than sorry.
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True. Thanks for reading!
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I’ve never traveled alone before. I’m not sure I’d feel comfortable doing it.
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That’s what I thought before too. I embarked on this trip because it was local! lol but I have never been here before
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Sounds like you had a great night shoot with the photographer. And San Diego is such a beautiful place down there. Trust is a huge thing. Its not so easily attained but sometimes when you give it you receive unexpected rewards.
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Yes I did and well said! Thank you š
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I have four kids, so we donāt travel as much as we would like. Itās mostly family friendly places. When the kids get older my husband and I would love to travel.
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I feel you. I would love to travel with my husband as well
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These are all great shots! I love your outfit in these, thanks for sharing!
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Thank you as well!
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First, of all happy 26th birthday girl. You look badass on that night shoot.
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Thank you!!
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Look like you have a lot of fun! And you got some really great shots š
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I did, thank you!
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What a cool post! I love the outfit and your hair, everything looks great. Thanks for sharing! š
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The photos looks stunning! I love your outfit in these, thanks for sharing!
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